THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO GETTING MARRIED AT FORGET ME NOT WEDDINGS
A private lakeside estate where every wedding feels completely your own.
Hidden amongst 100 acres of rolling farmland, rainforest gardens and peaceful waterways, Forget Me Not Weddings is one of Byron Bay's most romantic private estates. Just ten minutes from Byron Bay and five minutes from Bangalow, the property feels wonderfully secluded while remaining close to the region's best accommodation, restaurants and beaches.
Unlike venues that offer a fixed wedding package, Forget Me Not provides something increasingly rare: the freedom to design a celebration that reflects your own vision.
Whether you're dreaming of an elegant black-tie marquee beneath the stars, a relaxed long-table dinner overlooking the lake or an intimate celebration inside The WaterShed, the property becomes a blank canvas for your wedding story.
If you're searching for a venue that combines breathtaking natural beauty with complete creative flexibility, Forget Me Not deserves a place at the very top of your shortlist.
WHY WE LOVE FORGET ME NOT
There are beautiful venues.
And then there are venues that make you feel like you've escaped to your own private world.
Forget Me Not is one of those places.
The estate combines lush rainforest, rolling paddocks, established gardens, towering trees and a picturesque lake complete with a charming timber jetty and rowboat. Every direction offers another beautiful backdrop, meaning your guests never feel confined to one space throughout the day.
It also offers something many luxury couples value more than anything else—privacy.
Once you arrive, the entire property is exclusively yours.
CEREMONY LOCATIONS
One of Forget Me Not's greatest strengths is variety.
Rather than having one designated ceremony space, couples can choose from multiple locations throughout the estate.
Some of our favourites include:
The iconic lakeside jetty
The waterfront lawn
Beneath the magnificent established trees
Surrounded by lush rainforest gardens
The beautiful WaterShed overlooking the lake
Each ceremony location feels completely different while maintaining the same relaxed hinterland atmosphere that makes the venue so special.
A BEAUTIFUL WET WEATHER PLAN
One of the biggest advantages of Forget Me Not is that your backup plan never feels like a compromise.
The venue's purpose-built WaterShed overlooks the lake with large openings framing the surrounding landscape, making it an elegant location for ceremonies should the weather change. Rather than losing the connection to nature, you'll still enjoy beautiful water views and an abundance of natural light.
If you're planning an outdoor wedding, we always recommend reading our guide to Preparing for Rain on Your Wedding Day to ensure every possibility is covered.
RECEPTION OPTIONS
Forget Me Not is incredibly versatile.
For larger celebrations, couples can install a marquee, Sperry tent or tipi overlooking the lake, creating a completely bespoke reception surrounded by nature.
For smaller celebrations, The WaterShed offers a permanent reception space with rustic architectural charm and beautiful views across the water. It comfortably accommodates intimate dinners while still feeling connected to the outdoors.
Because the venue doesn't dictate a particular style, it suits everything from relaxed country weddings to refined black-tie celebrations.
ON-SITE ACCOMMODATION
One of the things we love most about destination weddings is slowing down.
Forget Me Not features four beautifully appointed country cottages, allowing the couple and their closest family or bridal party to stay onsite throughout the wedding weekend.
Inspired by classic Australian workers' cottages, each residence combines fresh contemporary interiors with peaceful views across the lake and surrounding farmland, making the morning of your wedding feel calm, relaxed and wonderfully private.
WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY AT FORGET ME NOT
As photographers, Forget Me Not is one of those venues where we could happily photograph all day without ever repeating a backdrop.
Throughout the property you'll discover:
The picturesque lake and timber jetty
The iconic rowboat
Mature rainforest gardens
Rolling green paddocks
Beautiful country fences
Wide open skies
Ancient trees
The WaterShed
Golden paddocks at sunset
Marquee celebrations beneath the stars
One of our favourite moments happens just before sunset, when the last light sweeps across the paddocks and reflects gently across the lake.
As evening falls, the property transforms again.
The reflections on the water, glowing festoon lights and soft evening atmosphere create the perfect opportunity for blue hour portraits, editorial direct flash photography and beautifully romantic slow shutter images.
If you'd like to learn more, read our guides to Why You Should Make Time for Blue Hour Portraits and Why You Should Include 35mm & 120 Film Photography.
CATERING
Forget Me Not allows couples the flexibility to work with approved catering partners, making it easy to tailor the dining experience to your celebration.
Whether you're envisioning elegant shared feasting tables, beautifully plated dining or a relaxed cocktail-style menu, the venue's preferred catering teams are renowned throughout the Byron Bay region for exceptional food and service.
IS FORGET ME NOT RIGHT FOR YOU?
Forget Me Not is perfect for couples who are dreaming of:
A private luxury estate
Complete creative freedom
Waterfront ceremony locations
Marquee or Sperry tent receptions
A destination wedding weekend
Beautiful onsite accommodation
Romantic garden photography
Pet-friendly celebrations
Relaxed bohemian weddings beneath the stars
THE ROMANCE ERA RECOMMENDS
Plan your cocktail hour beside the lake while guests enjoy canapés beneath the trees, then sneak away just before sunset for bridal party portraits.
The golden light reflecting across the water creates some of the most beautiful portraits on the property, before returning later in the evening for a handful of editorial direct flash images beneath the festoon lights.
Those two portrait sessions together tell the complete story of your wedding day.
AT A GLANCE
Style: Private waterfront country estate
Perfect for: Elegant destination weddings with complete creative freedom
Guest Capacity: Up to 160 guests (90 in The WaterShed)
Onsite Accommodation: Four luxury cottages
Catering: Preferred catering partners
Wet Weather: The WaterShed overlooking the lake
Pet Friendly: Yes
The Romance Era Recommends: Finish the evening with blue hour portraits beside the lake before returning to celebrate beneath the stars.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT GETTING MARRIED AT FORGET ME NOT WEDDINGS
Where is Forget Me Not Weddings located?
Forget Me Not Weddings is located just outside Bangalow in the Byron Bay hinterland, approximately 10 minutes from Byron Bay and only a few minutes from Bangalow. Its peaceful rural setting offers complete privacy while remaining close to accommodation, restaurants and beaches.
How many guests can Forget Me Not Weddings accommodate?
Forget Me Not is ideal for both intimate celebrations and larger weddings. The venue can accommodate up to 160 guests with a marquee or outdoor reception, while The WaterShed provides a beautiful permanent space for more intimate celebrations of up to 90 guests.
Is there accommodation at Forget Me Not Weddings?
Yes. Forget Me Not offers four beautifully appointed country cottages onsite, making it easy for the couple and their closest family or bridal party to stay together throughout the wedding weekend.
Does Forget Me Not have a wet weather option?
Yes. The venue features The WaterShed, a purpose-built indoor space overlooking the lake that provides an elegant backup for ceremonies and receptions. Unlike many wet weather plans, it still feels connected to the surrounding landscape thanks to its open design and beautiful outlook.
Can we have our ceremony by the lake?
Absolutely. The lakeside ceremony lawn and iconic timber jetty are among Forget Me Not's most popular ceremony locations, offering peaceful water views and a beautiful natural backdrop for exchanging your vows.
Is Forget Me Not pet friendly?
Yes. Forget Me Not welcomes pets, allowing many couples to include their dog in their ceremony and wedding photographs. As with all venues, it's worth discussing your plans with the venue team in advance to ensure everything runs smoothly.
Can we choose our own caterer?
Forget Me Not works with a selection of trusted preferred catering partners, giving couples the flexibility to create a dining experience that suits their celebration while ensuring exceptional food and service.
What style of wedding suits Forget Me Not?
Forget Me Not is incredibly versatile. It suits everything from elegant black-tie celebrations and marquee weddings to relaxed garden parties and intimate waterfront ceremonies. The estate's natural beauty and exclusive-use setting allow couples to style the space however they imagine.
Is Forget Me Not a good venue for wedding photography?
Absolutely. Forget Me Not is one of our favourite venues to photograph in the Byron Bay region. Between the lake, timber jetty, rowboat, rainforest gardens, open paddocks and sunset views, the property offers an incredible variety of backdrops without ever needing to leave the estate.
What makes Forget Me Not different from other Byron Bay wedding venues?
Forget Me Not offers something many venues don't: complete creative freedom. As a private estate rather than a restaurant or hotel, couples have the flexibility to create a wedding that feels entirely their own. Combined with exclusive use of the property, waterfront ceremony locations, onsite accommodation and stunning natural scenery, it offers an unforgettable destination wedding experience.
